Tuesday, January 29, 2013

The True Gamer

So, what is a 'True Gamer'? How often do they play?  What do they play, and maybe more importantly, what don't they play?  What hardware do they use?  How long do they have to have played to be in the 'True Gamer' club?  Super Nintendo?  Earlier?  Should they have to know about Indie games, or are the heavy-hitters enough?  Does genre, difficulty setting, multi-player or single player matter?  If you don't play Dark Souls are you even in the running?  And the question I'd really like to put forward with this post:  Why do we care?

I've been heavily gaming for about two years now.  I'm talking a few dozen games, most of which I've beat, some I've beat multiple times, several forums about specific games and gaming in general, listening to developer interviews, spending a good deal of time on Gamespot, and a program on my computer called Raptr that tracks my gaming progress.  And in these two years I've noticed something about the gaming community as a whole that baffles me: Elitism.

I would say that the majority of people whose sole or primary form of entertainment is playing video games have an earned stereotype (I can say this because I've earned it too).  We were outcasts in school because we were interested in things that no one else was.  When we talked we noticed that no one knew what we were talking about (both about entertainment and academia) and how we noticed it was that people would make comments about how they didn't know what we were talking about, to which most people would laugh.  Those of us in this category did one of two things, either we kept talking how we wanted and told ourselves we were just smarter than most people (though the ridicule got worse as time passed and while our minds felt superior, our hearts sure didn't), or we realized that people don't like smart people and dumbed ourselves down so we wouldn't be made fun or anymore, hiding our real interests from everyone except our true friends (this was me).  It was like people were part of these clubs that we were either not invited to, or that we faked our way into and then felt uncomfortable once there, because we could tell our kind weren't supposed to be there.  It was a struggle, or at least it was for me.

And then, after I got married, I found gaming, and more importantly, I found gamers on the internet.  It was like all of us found each other and became friends online.  There weren't many of us in our own communities, but when we made a worldwide community there were really a lot of us, and that idea intrigued me.  Finally, a large group of people who shared my interests and knew what I was talking about, and it wasn't just my group of friends I was honest with, there were a bunch of them.

After a few months though, I noticed how little gamers learned from high school.  I started seeing cliques.  The first I noticed were the hardware cliques (mostly PC vs. Console).  "Games are made for consoles, which are really just old computers so we never get to use our rigs to their full capabilities."  "Consoles are for casual gamers."  ('casual gamer' is an insult in the gaming community)  and, "Real gamers play on PCs."  I was originally a console gamer, I have some games on the PC, but when it comes to shooters, I need my paddle, I just do.  So console gamers would come back with "If it wasn't for consoles we wouldn't have the quality of games we have because there wouldn't be as much money in the industry."  "People with PCs just need to stop getting such powerful rigs, as it's obvious they don't need them for the games that exist."  but I never heard console gamers say PC gamers weren't 'True Gamers', but I think that comes from the fact that games started on the PC.

Which leads into the next clique:  "'True Gamers' have been playing since Atari."  or Nintendo, or Super Nintendo, or started on the PC and have never left it.  Somehow, having played for twenty years just makes you better than other people, kind of like being Vegan.  It just makes you better.

Then there are the genre wars.  Mostly it's people saying that those who play Call of Duty (or other multi-player shooters) aren't real gamers, even if they play something else.  The other big one is making fun of those who play facebook games because, you know, they aren't 'real games'.

I could go on, but my favorite are the Dark Souls/Deamon Souls players.  If you don't play and enjoy that game you aren't a 'True Gamer' in their minds.  I don't know what it is about that fan base, but I remember staying away from that game literally because the fans were so bat crap crazy that I didn't want to be numbered with them.  I've decided to try it eventually, but if you talked about any other game to any of them it was as if you were a twelve year old boy in Victoria's Secret, you just didn't belong talking to the grown ups about video games.

It's all so childish though.  It's as though we've finally found our way into a club we belong in and what's the first thing we do?  Try to keep as many people out as possible, by saying they aren't as good as the rest of us because of what they play, or how often they play, or that they don't play every single game on the hardest difficulty possible.  Don't we remember what that was like?  They mention a game on facebook and because that's not our cup of tea we make sure they feel like they don't belong, or because they haven't spent hours reading every book in all of Skyrim they aren't really playing the game.  Why aren't we better than this?  Why can't we seem to be better than this?  A gamer is anyone who enjoys playing video games with some or all of their free time.  We all have different tastes, and that's okay.  All of our tastes are valid, and all are invited to enjoy at least a facet of our past time.  It's brought us a lot of happiness, and we believe it can bring others happiness too.  So, lets invite them in, and make them feel welcomed instead of shunned.  I know we can do it, and we owe it to our fifteen year old selves to at least try.

10 comments:

  1. Well said. With me being married also, I don't play games nearly as much as I used to. I've been playing games for as long as I remember starting on the Atari and Colicovision. I've seen the cliques of gamers and I just ignore them if they feel that they're better than me or that the games they play are better than the ones I play. As I see it, it doesn't matter who you are, how old you are, what gender you are, what you play games on or even what games you play, as long as you enjoy what you're playing then who cares. If a game looks interesting I play it. And my wife is in the process of conquering Doom 2 on the xbox. Woooo

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    1. Yeah, I didn't start til I was married, but I will say that having a kid brought down my play time drastically. But this is exactly my point, if it's fun for you, play it, if it's not, don't bother those who do. I do generally stay away from talking to the cliques though. Internet anonymity makes them brazen and bull-headed, neither make me want to interact.

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  2. Likewise, I don't play as much since getting married, but I've been a gamer since before I was a teenager.

    Personally, I never understood the need most people seem to have to make themselves feel better than others. And if it isn't in the gaming world, they'll find some other way to create these barriers. Maybe they're trying to experience that feeling of superiority they felt they missed out on in highschool, or maybe it's a need for exclusivity that's just a sad facet of human nature. I don't know.

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    1. You do see Elitism everywhere, but I naively thought, in the beginning, that because of Elitism in high school, gamers would be different. It makes me sad to know it's human nature to be that way, it makes me sadder to know that those who have been on the hurt side do it to others if they get a chance.

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  3. Hi, my name is Antares Cryptos and I just joined your "we don't play as much as we used to club."

    My reaction time is slower, but my vocabulary is more extensive then the teens I accidentally play against.

    And what Vinny said. Welcome back, Paul.

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    1. Talk about another blog post: Why do twelve year olds only know the F-word? And why are they so f-ing good.

      And thanks for the welcome back. I can't believe how long it's been since I blogged.

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    2. Because they are 12?

      Want to play skyrim, but think it will take over my life...

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    3. I'm playing Skyrim now and I can tell you, it will take over your life. Or at least it's taken over mine. No obnoxious twelve year olds though. So... that's a plus.

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  4. I was addicted to Rollercoaster Tycoon for a year once. Does that count?

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