Wednesday, April 6, 2011

Bright Eyes is One Awesome Band

1. My wife... all inclusive.
2. I realized that when the picture of my guys on Dragon Age turn to skulls, it does not mean they're dead, it means they got knocked out.  I still don't see how it makes sense, but it felt nice to know I hadn't lost.
3. My figurine for the next D&D game came in the mail and it looks AMAZING (think of Kelly on The Office).

"A good woman will pick you apart.  A box full of suggestions for your possible heart.  But you may be offended, and you may be afraid.  But don't walk away, don't walk away."
                                                                               Landlocked Blue, Bright Eyes

So,  I listed yesterday that I am thankful for a wife who corrects me, and she knew what I meant, but I thought there may be some confusion/ I wanted to brag about my mate selection one more time. :)

Part of what makes my wife rock so hard is that she doesn't nag.  When  she gives suggestions, I can tell that she can see a me that I simply can't see.  She tells me all the time that when we got married, she could see who I was, and was happy with who I was, but that she could see a momentum carrying me toward being someone great, and occasionally, she makes suggestions that seem perfectly placed as a catalyst to my already steady movement in that direction.  They are almost always perfectly timed, and obviously there to help me reach my full potential, even if I don't see that potential myself.

I am so lucky guys.  There are honestly times that I look at her and wonder why she ever chose me.  I just don't see that great guy that I'm heading toward I guess.

She threw her pills up again last night.  I was playing Dragon Age and heard her get out of bed, so I went to see what was up.  She didn't take them as early as is best and I found her worshipping porcelain.  She didn't complain or anything.  She just said that she figured it would happen that night because she took her pills so late.  If I don't teach our child to love and respect their mom, I will have failed as a father, plain and simple.

Anyway, just thought I'd tell you all that my wife rocks hard and I'm very thankful for her.

Have a nice day.


  1. Be glad you have a good one. I was blessed with a bad one. And hence why we are not together anymore.

  2. Paul, your comment "I just don't see that great guy that I'm heading toward I guess." You are already a great guy because you saw the greatness in your wife! And obviously in this case, like attracted like!

  3. I agree with Average Girl. Remember your "Great" post. You are one of these people do you realise?

  4. You are definitely a great guy! I wish more guys could articulate their appreciation for love and life as you do!

    Also, Bright Eyes DOES rule and I love them.

  5. I love to read your post about your wife.

  6. It's great to have supportive partner. Beautiful.

  7. Dude. Where are you? I'll be here when you get back.